The First 72 Hours

What to say, and what not to say, after you have broken her trust.
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This is a short, free guide for men in the hardest days of their marriage — the days right after she found out. It will not tell you how to win her back. The job is smaller and harder: not making the wound deeper than it already is.
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    It is honest.
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    ​It will not flatter
    you, and it will not
    flatter the writer.

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    It offers no shortcuts.
    ​There is no
    shortcut. Anyone selling one is lying to you.

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    It was written from inside it.
    By a man who has been in that chair, and got it wrong before he got it right.
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