The First 72 Hours

What to say, and what not to say, after you have broken her trust.

This is a short, free guide for men in the hardest days of their marriage — the days right after she found out. It will not tell you how to win her back. The job is smaller and harder: not making the wound deeper than it already is.

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    It is honest.

    It will not flatter
    you, and it will not
    flatter the writer.

    It offers no shortcuts.
    There is no
    shortcut. Anyone selling one is lying to you.

    It was written from inside it.
    By a man who has been in that chair, and got it wrong before he got it right.